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Post by Deleted on Apr 23, 2016 4:47:01 GMT -7
So yea, I segwayed asking the chick out when I called her to explain my hour requirements for the next 2 weeks, when I can and can not work ,etc... I'm not fucking round so on that same call I word it like, "so now that you won;t be my boss in 2 weeks are you finally down to spend time if I come up with a good idea?"... She says "probably not", and hesitantly goes into how her schedule is busy and she does not know what is going on in her life right now, and just got off this long relationship... To be honest it threw me off a little, I said a few thingsI wanted to say regarding me not normally doing this but I see somehting interesting, life is short, etc.... I know she likes me and wants to say yes and keeps on finding reasons to say know.
I probably liek her because the epecial thing I see is behind a ton of walls, which is extremely frustrating as my walls have stood strong for quite some time.
I am not done, and have some ideas, it's a very tough situation that I'm not 100% sure how to approach, I just know amazing things are not easily attined liek a box of cereal, it requires putitng myself out there and perhaps being willing to embarass myself, because in the end I don;t give a fuck the Universe is giving us a chance here... let;s not fuck it up and let a door slam shut forever.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 23, 2016 4:49:25 GMT -7
I think the only reason she is single is because she is fighting guys off with a stick and is super reluctant to become invested in something that requires so much truest and energy. Some dude is goign to break the walls down, and i'm going to try is all I have to say.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 23, 2016 4:53:33 GMT -7
and also I appreciate the positive vibes a lot.
Jambase does not give you what you want, it gives you what you need like a true friend.
Gay stuff I know
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Post by lovejahlive on Apr 23, 2016 8:04:44 GMT -7
just kill her so this can be finished.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 23, 2016 8:20:39 GMT -7
I got all Wednesday up in this bitch. Luckily managed to get the car packed while I was doing it so now I just need to get some coffee and breakfast in me and it's off to my parents house. It's my mom's birthday and Im gonna try to get some work done on their house and get a bike ride in while I'm there.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 23, 2016 8:31:48 GMT -7
SV I hate to break it to you bud. She's not into you. Saying her schedule is busy, she just got out of a long realationship, etc those are all the same excuse any women would give who wants to let a nice guy off easy. Believe me or not, it's up to you, but I'm 99% positive this girl has 0 interest in you. Your best bet is to move on before you just make things harder on yourself.
If a girl is into a guy she will find time in her busy schedule to see what may happen. If she's not into a guy she will use basic excuses like she's too busy to try to give the guy the hint that she's just not interested in him.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 23, 2016 8:34:15 GMT -7
Going to the white sox game today! Then gonna go party with some buddies and watch the Blackhawks game. Lady is doing some shopping with her friend and staying in the rest of the night. She just asked that they I don't come home super late, hopefully I don't have too much fun and lose track of time because we tend to leave this particular buddies house very late when we party over there. Last time we were there we didn't get home until 5 am
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Post by lovejahlive on Apr 23, 2016 8:36:01 GMT -7
Gerg knows... He's been rejected A LOT.
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Post by lovejahlive on Apr 23, 2016 8:37:28 GMT -7
wait a minute... you guys are living together? God gerg
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Post by Deleted on Apr 23, 2016 8:38:32 GMT -7
Not rejected as much as I should have been. Didn't have a lot of confidence at one point.
But yes take it from someone who knows rejection very well.
I'm too busy = hey I think you're a nice guy and maybe if you didn't just ask me out I could hang out with you and smoke sometime, but it would strictly be as friends.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 23, 2016 8:38:51 GMT -7
We've been living together a year now
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Post by Deleted on Apr 23, 2016 8:42:50 GMT -7
Stfu Greg, I'm trying to see if this turns into our very own lifetime movie.
Break down those walls SV, she's just playing hard to get.
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Post by lovejahlive on Apr 23, 2016 8:42:51 GMT -7
slut
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Post by ferd on Apr 23, 2016 8:44:39 GMT -7
Over/Under on when she gets a restraining order? 15 days?
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Post by frododoknobo on Apr 23, 2016 8:44:57 GMT -7
SV I hate to break it to you bud. She's not into you. Saying her schedule is busy, she just got out of a long realationship, etc those are all the same excuse any women would give who wants to let a nice guy off easy. Believe me or not, it's up to you, but I'm 99% positive this girl has 0 interest in you. Your best bet is to move on before you just make things harder on yourself. If a girl is into a guy she will find time in her busy schedule to see what may happen. If she's not into a guy she will use basic excuses like she's too busy to try to give the guy the hint that she's just not interested in him. You obviously don't pay attention to romantic comedies. The persistent dude will always get the girl, even if she hates him at first. |
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Post by frododoknobo on Apr 23, 2016 8:45:43 GMT -7
We've been living in sin for a year now FTFY, sinner. |
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Post by Don Swifty on Apr 23, 2016 8:47:47 GMT -7
I got dibs on the movie rights if this starts to get weird, interesting, or stalkerish.
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Post by lovejahlive on Apr 23, 2016 8:52:46 GMT -7
is she fat gerg. be honest.
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Post by frododoknobo on Apr 23, 2016 8:54:58 GMT -7
I've heard that Mrs Gerg is way out of his league. That's why he knocked her up. Anchor baby a la Ruxin.
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Post by ferd on Apr 23, 2016 8:59:28 GMT -7
anchorbabylol
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