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Post by dbg465285 on Oct 16, 2017 14:03:31 GMT -7
Its walking the line of unconditional love and self preservation that is the pain. Good luck to you and your friend.
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Post by chickenpoop on Oct 16, 2017 14:04:54 GMT -7
Dang, JW that's a tough situation. ((Hugs))
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Post by bear on Oct 16, 2017 14:05:16 GMT -7
More like, never fully trust anyone...
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Post by deadphishbiscuits on Oct 16, 2017 14:06:07 GMT -7
JRAD is playing Albany. Pretty rad. -I'm going to try and see them in Syracuse. When is cuse show?
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Post by ancientchad on Oct 16, 2017 14:28:18 GMT -7
I'm so sorry jdub. He's very lucky to have you and everyone else but he doesn't stand a shot unless he does in-patient.
There were several heroin addicts in there with me. I know a couple of them are thriving now. It can be done.
Lots of prayers and mojo your guys' way.
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Post by deadphishbiscuits on Oct 16, 2017 14:51:40 GMT -7
Damn mamacita, vibes to you and him, it's such a tough tough road, x and I went through it with her old man
He's still battaling and relapsing and battling repeat
It comes down the person from what I've seen, you can have all the support in the world and all the love on top of it
But if you don't want it, you'll keep at it
Can only lead the horse to water, can't make it drink
Again if you need anything lemme know, just a stones throw down 390
Be strong, and love to you and yours mamacita
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Post by chickenpoop on Oct 16, 2017 14:56:54 GMT -7
One of my best friends is a recovering addict, which is a weird thing for me to call him since he has been sober for decades longer than I have known him. He still goes to NA. I think what helped him a lot was choosing healthy addictions to replace the unhealthy ones.... now he is hooked on NA meetings, bicycling and cultural events.
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Post by jordanwonder on Oct 16, 2017 15:10:20 GMT -7
And thanks agains guys ❤️
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Post by Amster on Oct 16, 2017 15:14:48 GMT -7
My ex went to inpatient more than once. He spent a couple months in jail. Nothing. He moved across the country, got away from everything he knew here. I think that's what he needed. Seems to be doing well. He calls me every couple of months. I usually talk to him. Called the other day, matter of fact. He got a real grown up job and seems really happy. I'm happy for him. Proud of him.
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Post by jordanwonder on Oct 16, 2017 15:23:18 GMT -7
I'm so happy to hear that.
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Post by jordanwonder on Oct 16, 2017 15:24:33 GMT -7
Our buddies that he started using with. One died a couple years ago. The other moved away and is doing great.
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Post by senatooorofspace on Oct 16, 2017 15:26:16 GMT -7
I wish Phish was Fall Touring...gnhaaa
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Post by autophil74 on Oct 16, 2017 16:20:05 GMT -7
I'm cooking bacon in the oven right now
Way less mess and the bacon turns out like bacon, very stoked about these BLTs I'm about to make. I made my own bread
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Post by lerner on Oct 16, 2017 17:00:28 GMT -7
that sucks, jordan... but (and i probably shouldnt say it) youre to good for that shit...
sorry...
love you!..
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Post by phish-bot on Oct 16, 2017 17:03:07 GMT -7
hope things get better jdubs. luvu
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Post by Filo on Oct 16, 2017 17:23:55 GMT -7
He can get cleaned up, Jordan. He just has to figure out what his bottom is. It sounds like he doesn't feel like he has reached it yet. He will and then he will finally give it up. Hopefully that happens sooner than later. Best of luck....
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Post by jordanwonder on Oct 16, 2017 17:36:13 GMT -7
Thanks guys. I love you all too. Like so so much.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 16, 2017 17:38:16 GMT -7
Jordan you're a damn saint. I hope your boy figures out how to get himself straightened out.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 16, 2017 19:49:49 GMT -7
Jordan, I knew something has been going on, the lack of basing particularly updates, I was actually gonna message you at some point asking how things are.... Still have something I wanna give you, just mad busy.
My 2 cents is Ive already written off family I got no time in my life for drug addicts. Life sucks sometimes.
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Post by higs on Oct 16, 2017 19:51:42 GMT -7
Oh shit. Just got caught up. Jordan, you are incredible. That was a tough read. Vibes doesn't say enough.
So many awesome posters here. Love you all.
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