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Post by higs on May 14, 2024 13:06:50 GMT -7
Funny. I've had a few really good weeks and have succeeded in avoiding the circular logic and dwelling. Until today.
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Post by Not your moms 🌮 on May 14, 2024 13:17:06 GMT -7
I pissed off the wife and kids real good on Saturday. The kids got over it right away. Went mountain biking all day Sunday and dropped off daughter at a show in Detroit. Ate some expensive but yummy duck ramen. Wife still pissed off. That will probably never change. Fuck it. Space and Trey tonight. Mountain biking in the morning. Life is good even if other people think you suck.
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Post by Don Swifty on May 14, 2024 13:25:46 GMT -7
Wife is pissed at me because I calmly pointed out that she spent a fuckload of our savings but I'm the bad guy because she doesn't want to hear ahout being accountable for her actions. Gaslighting at its finest. Pretty sure I've been guilty of all of those (from both perspectives) at one time or another.
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Post by ancientchad on May 14, 2024 15:56:19 GMT -7
My first thought was it was Mother's Day.
But obviously I don't know the circumstances.
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Post by Not your moms 🌮 on May 15, 2024 11:22:21 GMT -7
My first thought was it was Mother's Day. But obviously I don't know the circumstances. It started with me bringing everyone in the house a quad shot of espresso. Then one of my daughters got upset thar she doesn't like espresso and not to get her any anymore. Then I pointed out that every coffee drink she does like has espresso in it and we have all the stuff to turn it into something she does like. Then she got more upset and told me I wasted my money and please don't do it again. So I repeated myself but apparently with attitude because other daughter and dumb wife started batching at me. Then told them to shut up. Then everyone got more upset. Then I started yelling. Then everyone got more upset. Just stupid crap. And my daughter has been to the coffee shop buying herself drinks a few times since. And I have been good and not said anything rude. Which has been a challenge. On a brighter note. That show was awesome. The band was having a blast and really delivered a great performance. I got spaced for the first time in months. And had a blast. And it was actually the first buzz other than caffeine in over 2 months. Going to be a sleepy night at work tonight but worth it.
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Post by deadphishbiscuits on May 15, 2024 12:17:47 GMT -7
Yeah those meetin with that dude were not what I was looking for
Need to prolly see an actual shrink or aborigine head doctor , not some cat that is a licensed mental health professional via the way of the university of Phoenix
I have no idea his actual credentials , nice dude n all
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Post by ancientchad on May 15, 2024 18:21:41 GMT -7
^ I think it takes a little while to build a rapport but if your not feeling it punt for sure.
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Post by ancientchad on May 15, 2024 18:23:12 GMT -7
Today was interesting. Not necessarily in a good way.
I need sleep. But I'm gonna get cute with my meds.
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Post by deadphishbiscuits on May 15, 2024 18:53:22 GMT -7
^ I think it takes a little while to build a rapport but if your not feeling it punt for sure. For sure I'm tryin to figure out shit boutnmy fucked up feelins N mind(which on the whole may not be that fucked up? But thats prolly what all fucked up peopple say..), and this dude is talkin bout making lists to exercise... ...I mentioned not exercising lately and needing to get back into something, for maybe a second or two And that's his focus, lol
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Post by ancientchad on May 15, 2024 19:16:18 GMT -7
Yeah that is weak and bush league.
Next
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Post by ancientchad on May 16, 2024 3:35:11 GMT -7
First good solid sleep in a long time.
Very pleased.
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Post by TieDyeVikki on May 16, 2024 7:00:50 GMT -7
^ I think it takes a little while to build a rapport but if your not feeling it punt for sure. For sure I'm tryin to figure out shit boutnmy fucked up feelins N mind(which on the whole may not be that fucked up? But thats prolly what all fucked up peopple say..), and this dude is talkin bout making lists to exercise... ...I mentioned not exercising lately and needing to get back into something, for maybe a second or two And that's his focus, lol He was probably going to recommend exercise anyway, as that's one of the basics you can do to help yourself feel better, along with proper sleep and hydration. So when you mentioned it first, he jumped on that. No idea if he has anything more to offer you. Most people don't find the right counselor for them on the first try. Don't give up.
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Post by ferd on May 16, 2024 7:29:33 GMT -7
I saw a counselor once and didn't click so I went back to the old fashioned method of self medicating
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Post by deadphishbiscuits on May 16, 2024 8:03:29 GMT -7
Self medication seems to be workin for the most part
Elluva a lot cheaper too, no way I could afford this chit if it wasn't free
I'm in the wrong business, I need to become a shrink/aborigine head doctor
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Post by Zeewada on May 16, 2024 9:27:52 GMT -7
Float On Brehs'
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Post by ancientchad on May 20, 2024 5:24:42 GMT -7
Gonna take a lot of focus to get thru today.
Feel like I'm on the verge of a meltdown at any moment.
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Post by phish on May 20, 2024 5:27:37 GMT -7
you got this ac. youre a machine.
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Post by ferd on May 20, 2024 6:06:39 GMT -7
Gonna take a lot of focus to get thru today. Feel like I'm on the verge of a meltdown at any moment. Love ya bud
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Post by EddieBlake on May 20, 2024 6:08:56 GMT -7
Gonna take a lot of focus to get thru today. Feel like I'm on the verge of a meltdown at any moment. You've got this. I've also found when Im going to snap that actually screaming or yelling in my car can relieve some of that stress. Get the angry shit out in a private place.
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Post by GBK2point0 on May 20, 2024 6:21:34 GMT -7
Last week was a bad week. We had a falling out with my brother and his wife. We expressed frustration for an issue we had with something that happened at their party and they completely melted down over it. My brother made it incredibly personal by saying some unforgiveable things about my wife and her family and he also made a scene at work. Worst was part was we all went to a wedding together Saturday with my family and my parents got a car for all of us together. We didn't talk and kept it civil and luckily they didn't take the car on the way home. The wedding was amazing and the wife and had a GREAT weekend but the week leading up was very draining. We have basically gone a straight month seeing my family every weekend and we are going to take the next couple weeks off. Probably get a baby sitter for Friday or Saturday so we can go on a much needed date night and enjoy a relaxing weekend with our children. The park district pool opens up this weekend and is basically a mini water park so we will take the girls
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