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Post by PooDolla on Oct 6, 2015 12:53:58 GMT -7
my thought....let it go.
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Post by PooDolla on Oct 6, 2015 12:54:36 GMT -7
don't forget, and if he ever comes to you for money or help don't give it to him.
otherwise fighting to get this money is just going add negativity, stress and a lot of work to your life.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 6, 2015 12:57:54 GMT -7
according to him at the time, he took it to pay hospital bills because apparently the Old man lied to the VA about how much money he had, so when they found out they came looking for their money he said he had to pay that but now I've found out that it was never paid in full and certainly not to the tune of $30K he also said he had to pay off some CCs.
At this point it like my word against his. He is a church going business man(who eats mushrooms and peyote), and I am...
I just don't have the $250/hr for the lawyer...
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Post by Deleted on Oct 6, 2015 12:58:12 GMT -7
I like that.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 6, 2015 12:58:40 GMT -7
don't forget, and if he ever comes to you for money or help don't give it to him. otherwise fighting to get this money is just going add negativity, stress and a lot of work to your life. I know. |
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Post by Don Swifty on Oct 6, 2015 12:59:31 GMT -7
Part of me would want to threaten him with making his life/business difficult. Call INS on his employees, let other family members know what he did and provide the proof that you discovered that kind of thing. I'm going to guess that 7 years down the road the 30k is long since spent and gone. If you're relationship was shit I'd probably just let him know what a shitty human being and family member he is, drop it, and move on. If you're relationship was more on the decent side I'd tell myself that for whatever reason he really needed the $ at the time and then just let it go. Sorry to hear about your situation. Family can be real shit sometimes. Sometimes I think they do shit figuring that because it's family they can shit on you and treat you differently.
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Post by waldowally on Oct 6, 2015 13:07:03 GMT -7
Slash his tires atleast one time.
You will feel better then move on
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Post by Deleted on Oct 6, 2015 13:14:34 GMT -7
My parents were both married three times each, and had multiple children from other marriages I am the youngest of 7. the brother we are speaking about is my youngest sibling, and he is ten years older than me. When I was born all of my brothers and sisters, who were adults at the time protested my conception and birth sighting the fact that my mother, was 40, already had several kids that she didn't love, and that I would take a large chunk of the inheritance. Long story short, he was last one that was talking to me, so there is no other family to tell and if I did they would take his side anyway.
As far as calling INS, nah ima not do that, that's snitchin' that's something he would do...
Fuck it. Karma is a bitch though, he never does well.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 6, 2015 13:16:15 GMT -7
Slash his tires atleast one time. You will feel better then move on Perhaps. I thought about spray painting some shit on his work van right over his Logo. |
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Post by PooDolla on Oct 6, 2015 13:17:45 GMT -7
bees
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Post by deadphishbiscuits on Oct 6, 2015 13:31:09 GMT -7
Oof man.....thats a lot of scraitch...hermanito def be gettin ass kickin
Then pin it on he mexicans that work for himtheyll say one has zeta or lobos connections and wahlah....then do it again sprinkle.some crack on im and call it another cartel retaliation
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Post by frododoknobo on Oct 6, 2015 13:31:57 GMT -7
Call the IRS on him. Say you've seen this guy who did work for you flash a lot of cash that he wouldn't likely have in his current business.
It won't get you your money back, but every time you get mad, you can just imagine him going through his audit and smile.
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Post by frododoknobo on Oct 6, 2015 13:32:54 GMT -7
Or let it go. One or the other.
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Post by travelinlight879 on Oct 6, 2015 13:35:25 GMT -7
Shady shit, $$$ is evil or can be
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Post by Deleted on Oct 6, 2015 13:37:30 GMT -7
Slash his tires atleast one time. You will feel better then move on Perhaps. I thought about spray painting some shit on his work van right over his Logo. If you spray paint the van, go with "rape" in big letters. |
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Post by waldowally on Oct 6, 2015 13:42:07 GMT -7
Perhaps. I thought about spray painting some shit on his work van right over his Logo. If you spray paint the van, go with "rape" in big letters. Then his wife would give him more trouble then you ever could. Good idea. 2 birds 1 can of spraypaint. |
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Post by ragedoses on Oct 6, 2015 13:48:06 GMT -7
hire a hitman
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Post by lordkundalini on Oct 6, 2015 13:52:00 GMT -7
in the end he felt he had to steal.
stealing bad.
feel sorry that he had to cross that path. be the better man since as you said nothing you can do to get money back
all you have is to control the reaction.. love or hostility
the choice is yours
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Post by treetophigh on Oct 6, 2015 14:03:26 GMT -7
Honestly, I am of the mind that if issues come between me and someone in the family I just dont invest anything into them or allow them to exploit or take advantage of me, financially, emotionally or any other way.
It seems like you already have contempt for him. You make a point not to speak with him and return the emotion through slamming the door.
In the end you are still family. I would propose that you just be civil and dont take the negative words seriously if he throws them your way and dont give him opportunities to rip you off, all the while taking the high road, still participating in family stuff, and keeping a relationship with him.
As far as the inheritance goes, I would just confront him with the knowledge, let him know you are hurt and disappointing but not retaliate, just let him know the disappointment.
I have seen how intrafamily disputes and foolish resentments just fuck things up for EVERYONE in the family, particularly children, and its because supposed adults act so incredibly childish no matter what side of the dispute they are on. I understand there are extreme cases when violence or theft like this is involved, but for the most part it is just like siblings and inlaws act like babies and cant just live ones own life without thinking they know what is best for everyone else or should prescribe a moral code for everyone else etc.
Family should just be the one group that regardless of our lifestyles, politics, religions, shortcomings, etc. should be able to get together, let it go and share some love.
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Post by salmon401 on Oct 6, 2015 15:31:57 GMT -7
Generally I fall into the let it go category.
.... But if you are going to mess with his truck, maybe go subtle, change the phone number, or put "proudly serving only white people since 1990", something that may go unnoticed for awhile
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