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Jan 21, 2019 18:07:25 GMT -7
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Post by Amster on Jan 21, 2019 18:07:25 GMT -7
I want to get sterilized but I've heard it's difficult to do as a woman without children. I will be discussing it with my dr. And if my dr resists, I will be seeking another.
See, I can't even get my tubes tied off the bat. (I haven't talked to the dr so I might be mistaken).
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Post by treetophigh on Jan 21, 2019 18:23:23 GMT -7
I think conservative religious white people get all bent out of shape as well because they see the changing (browning) demographics and think that fewer white babies will speed up their dwindling numbers to eventually becoming an ethnic minority (oh, the horror) in the US. this might be a stretch... |
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Jan 21, 2019 18:30:37 GMT -7
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Post by chickenpoop on Jan 21, 2019 18:30:37 GMT -7
Amster, I asked to get my tubes tied after I had my kid and the doctor said that I was too young (I was 32 lol). I could have switched hospitals and had it done I think.
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Post by ancientchad on Jan 21, 2019 19:23:47 GMT -7
This thread sucks.
That is all.
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Jan 21, 2019 19:25:55 GMT -7
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Post by Deleted on Jan 21, 2019 19:25:55 GMT -7
I want to get sterilized but I've heard it's difficult to do as a woman without children. I will be discussing it with my dr. And if my dr resists, I will be seeking another. See, I can't even get my tubes tied off the bat. (I haven't talked to the dr so I might be mistaken). I want to make babies with you. Don't do it. |
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Jan 21, 2019 19:47:02 GMT -7
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Post by lerner on Jan 21, 2019 19:47:02 GMT -7
The ok abortion thread usually pisses off somebody... good job, ferd...
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Post by treetophigh on Jan 21, 2019 19:48:52 GMT -7
I look forward to hashing this out again with you guys in another year or so...
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Jan 21, 2019 19:55:09 GMT -7
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Post by GBK2point0 on Jan 21, 2019 19:55:09 GMT -7
I have always believed we should be allowed to do to our bodies what we see fit. It is a womans body and it is her right to do what she wants to it.
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Post by Don Swifty on Jan 21, 2019 20:28:22 GMT -7
I think conservative religious white people get all bent out of shape as well because they see the changing (browning) demographics and think that fewer white babies will speed up their dwindling numbers to eventually becoming an ethnic minority (oh, the horror) in the US. this might be a stretch... It'd be a stretch to suggest all conservative religious white people.... but it does seem to be a thing among some. en.wikipedia.org/wiki/White_genocide_conspiracy_theory |
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Post by ferd on Jan 22, 2019 5:22:59 GMT -7
Thanks all, for having a mostly respectful and adult conversation. Even though we don't agree on everything, I love you all.
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Post by bear on Jan 22, 2019 5:26:19 GMT -7
Even venk?
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Post by ferd on Jan 22, 2019 5:30:22 GMT -7
Aside from taking things a little too personally...even Venk.
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Jan 22, 2019 5:36:07 GMT -7
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Post by GBK2point0 on Jan 22, 2019 5:36:07 GMT -7
Only assholes take things to personally on jambase...
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*quits*
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Jan 22, 2019 5:45:35 GMT -7
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Post by EddieBlake on Jan 22, 2019 5:45:35 GMT -7
Aside from taking things a little too personally...even Venk. Well I hate myself enough to count for both of us  |
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Post by frododoknobo on Jan 22, 2019 6:37:01 GMT -7
I will say that Ferd is the most rational pro life, pro gun person I know.
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Post by noclevername on Jan 22, 2019 7:00:24 GMT -7
Me and my ex had an abortion almost ten years ago. It’s a crazy thought. Ultimately, I could say whatever I want but it wasn’t my choice. Fast forward to current times and there is still a weird weight on my shoulders regarding it. We’re we ready? No. Could we have handled it? Sure
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Post by chronicircle on Jan 22, 2019 7:11:51 GMT -7
This thread sucks. That is all. thank you for the cliff notes. much appreciated. |
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Post by treetophigh on Jan 22, 2019 7:18:08 GMT -7
I know folks that had children when they were not yet prepared and have resented it ever since. Feel pissed about missing out of the opportunities life presents without children, etc. Children are a dominating variable in a parent's life and adds unique limitations in most all aspects of life and personal pursuits. Its a tough call.
As a couple, we decided long ago to both not play games with birth control and accept a pregnancy if it ever happened. Somewhere along the line we tested the whole thing and left things up to chance. That chance hasnt taken and it has been nearly 10 years. That said, we have never taken extra efforts to make it happen so it may be just a little medical assistance and its all good from there.
Life throws everyone varying and complicated circumstances and we all are going to react in different ways. Our reactions when right at one time, can prove to feel wrong at a later time and vice versa. No one in this thread has the right answer. We can however accept that there are various perspectives and learn from each other and our experiences, or we can talk loudly and totally miss an opportunity to grow.
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Post by ferd on Jan 22, 2019 7:21:40 GMT -7
I definitely feel like I missed out on some things since Legs and I started having kids so early...We missed out on being young together and traveling and having disposable income...not to mention had we waited a few years we would have been on more solid financial footing.
Our love and our love for our children have made all the difference though. I really wouldn't change anything if I could.
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Post by Amster on Jan 22, 2019 10:08:33 GMT -7
I want to get sterilized but I've heard it's difficult to do as a woman without children. I will be discussing it with my dr. And if my dr resists, I will be seeking another. See, I can't even get my tubes tied off the bat. (I haven't talked to the dr so I might be mistaken). I want to make babies with you. Don't do it. Hard pass. |
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